“No parent thinks, “I wonder what I can do today to undermine my children, subvert their effort, turn them off learning, and limit their achievement.” Of course not. They think, “I would do anything, give anything, to make my children successful.” Yet many of the things they do boomerang. Their helpful judgments, their lessons, their motivating technics often send the wrong message.” Dr. Carol S. Dweck (Mindset) Too many good parents constantly blame themselves, especially when “accused”, for not being the exemplar parent. Too
